Features
An objective
witness in
your pocket.
ArgumenTamer® doesn't take sides. It listens, observes, and gives you both the clearest possible picture of what happened — so you can move forward together.
⚡One-tap recording
Like Shazam — set up once, then a single press from your home screen starts recording. Before it begins, both partners receive a push notification on their own phones and must individually tap to accept. No consent, no recording.
Dual consent
📊Live tone alerts
Silent vibrations notify you when tension is rising, escalation happens, or a trigger phrase is used — without interrupting the conversation. Only the person recording sees the alerts.
Real-time
🧠Summary on both phones
When the session ends, a full summary is sent to both partners' devices. You each see the shared breakdown — tension score, timeline, flashpoints — plus a private section only visible to you.
Both devices
💬Ask anything
After the summary, ask the AI any question about your session privately on your own phone. "Who escalated first?", "What triggered that moment?", "Was I being unreasonable?"
Private Q&A
📈Pattern insights over time
Your session archive shows every past argument with its summary. Over time, AI identifies your recurring patterns — the triggers, the phrases, the moments — and shows you how to come across better next time.
Get better over time
🤝Invite your partner
Set up the app and invite your partner with a personal link. They sign up on their own device and get an exclusive discount. Both consent, both see their own summary — the app works for both of you equally.
Refer & save